How to Build a Man

Women, do you know how to build a man?

Or are you more skilled in tearing him down?

When you challenge him, or question his motives, it hits tender parts of him.

If he is working on a project and you tell him he is doing it wrong or question if he knows how in the first place, that digs deep in his heart and leaves a scar.

And we know a heart can take only so much before it can no longer heal the cuts it sustains. .

He needs to hear that you have confidence in him and that even if he fails at whatever he is working on, you still think he is the greatest man on earth.

If he offers to fix something, let him.

Whatever you do, don’t say you can fix it yourself. Don't kill you own snakes!

Women show their love with kisses, hugs and saying I love you.

But men show love by working on things, taking out the trash and getting your coffee for you.

Yes kiss him, tell him you love him but also remember to thank him when he does something for you.

Hold your tongue when he shows his love and remember the words like ”you're amazing” and “ good job" are music to his ears.